149: Patience in Planning – Hold Loosely to Wishes
"...Fancy is fruitful and promises fair, but, like the dog in the fable, we catch at a shadow, and when we find the disappointment, we are vexed, not with ourselves, who are really the impostors, but with the poor, innocent thing or person of whom we have formed such strange ideas..." This week, I am reading from Abigail Adams’ letter to Hannah Lincoln, written in 1761. Reflection questions: Have you become too firmly attached to the capital project you have envisioned and formed false notions of things and persons? Have you invited donors hear your wishes for the project and then listened to their input to make the project better? Reflections on quote: During the strategic, pre-development, and construction planning, we have grand wishes of what the project will be. We dream about our mission and how this building will further that dream. It is a beautiful element in every capital campaign. Unfortunately, we can move too quickly from the construction planning to the quiet phase of asking donors. And, in doing so, we can form false notions about things and persons; that, about the project and the donors who will fund the project. Then reality and disappointment will suddenly confront us…
